How often have you noticed something that needs to be addressed in order for your loved one to have the best care? Probably almost as often you have felt mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted.
The key to dealing with these situations is to be prepared, to be as informed as possible. Armed with the relevant information you will feel empowered and confident.
These eight practical suggestions will ensure quick access to the records you need to be effective in your dealings with medical professionals and bureaucrats when issues arise.
1. At every appointment, take notes and always date them.
Be sure to include a list of all participants. At meetings with medical practitioners ensure that you record key terminology and associated terms, and any recommendations that are made. This applies not only to specific medical concerns but also to diagnosis and treatment options. I kept these notes in one notebook making it easy for me to quickly locate relevant information. This helps immensely if you should decide to question a medical decision.
2. Get copies.
Always insist that you receive any report that is generated concerning your patient. I found that doctors were usually willing to have an assistant photocopy documents for me. I even received ECG printouts when I asked for them.
3. In the Province of British Columbia you have the right to a printout of any lab test results requested by your doctor. However you must tell them you want a copy when you submit the requisition to the lab. The lab will then either give you a card with the internet address where you can access the results, or if you prefer, ask to have them mailed to you.
4. Ask the pharmacists to photocopy all original prescription requests from your doctor. This allows you to compare the dosages indicated on bottles or vials to what the doctor actually prescribed. It also enables you to check prescriptions against previous ones. On rare occasions this additional check helped me to determine, with a pharmacist’s assistance, that the prescription filled was either inaccurate or inadequate. I found that Costco pharmacy was always willing to go this extra distance to ensure my peace of mind.
5. Don’t back down. If you have gathered all the information and know that you are right, don’t yield. Always be calm and courteous, but insistent. Do your research. If you are lucky enough to have a nurse or doctor in the family or in your circle of friends, discuss the issues with them. They may put your mind at ease with the medical advice you have been given, or they may indicate possible strategies for intervention.
6. Phone calls to professionals are most effective when you maintain a professional demeanour. The last thing you want to do is to alienate the people who hold your loved one’s life in their hands! Use phrases like “it seems that this is the case…”, or “is it not the case…?”, or “could you please explain to me…?”, or “it seems to me…” as opposed to “you made a mistake…”, or “you lied…”.
7. In the case of bureaucratic delays or rejections, where time is crucial to ensuring the well-being and best care of your patient, state that if necessary you are willing, while be it reluctantly, to go to wider public resources: the local newspaper or TV station.
When writing a letter always copy to your MP or MLA and state that you are doing so. Assert and reassert the facts. When you have the evidence to back up your position, you need never back down.
8. You are your loved one’s lifeline. Never forget that. One of a caregiver’s first and foremost endeavour is to advocate for those who are under their care.
This Caregiver’s Journal began in August of 2014. Although the first blog article was actually written on New Year’s Day, 2015, the rest are in chronological order from August 5th, 2014. What is written here has gone before.
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